Congratulations, you have intelligently chosen a qualified instructor, and you are ready to take an official riding lesson. Good for you. If you own your own horse, or if you are using one of the trainer’s lesson horses, please arrive at least ten minutes early. If you own your own horse ask the trainer ahead of time if you will be riding first or doing ground work. Sometimes trainers want to work with students on the ground first to see how competent and confident he or she is. Insist on learning to groom the horse yourself. Do not tie the horse on your own however. Let the trainer show you how, and where, to tie the horse. If you are riding, learn how to saddle and bridle and groom yourself. If it takes an entire lesson or two to learn these skills, so be it.
During the lesson, keep your ears open , be quiet and mindful, but give the instructor feedback . If you are not understanding how to do something, ask about it until you get it. Do not forget to breathe! So many students begin to breathe very shallow, or stop breathing altogether as soon as the horse takes its first step. If you have taken lessons before, from another instructor, do not say “Well my last instructor told me to do this exercise …blah…blah”. If you are going to doubt your instructor/trainer, then TEACH YOURSELF! Listen and breathe, listen and breathe. Do what you are instructed to do.
Enjoy.
When the lesson is over, ask questions that you want to ask. Then learn how to unsaddle and once again groom the horse yourself. If another question pops up during the week be sure and ask it at your next lesson. Go over in your head what you learned during the week. Visualize what you learned. Or if you took the lesson on your own horse, practice, visualize, practice, practice, practice, visualize and practice.























